Have you ever taken the time to sit quietly, contemplating all of the aspects of your being, why you respond the way you do to certain things and differently to others. Who are you really? Not who you were told you are, but who you actually are beneath all of those projections of those close to you as you were developing an awareness of being in a body.
None of us see ourselves correctly or authentically until we take the time to peel away all of the labels, definitions, characteristics and habits of thought created for us by the perceptions of others. Most of us go through life being someone different from who we feel we are, which is why so many are confused, lost and misunderstood.
Allow yourself to sit quietly and be still. Out of the stillness will begin to emerge feelings, thoughts, passions for and about things you either never knew you had or hadn't known how to express. You were probably told to stop daydreaming as a child, as most everyone was told it was unproductive.
Nothing could be further from the truth. It is in the space of daydreams where we align with our Higher Nature. We get glimpses of who we are and what we're capable of, which frightens us at first. However, as we become more familiar with space, we begin to enjoy going there. This is where creation happens.
Complaining is pointless, do something or forget it.
Blame is useless; we all play a part in what is happening.
Personal responsibility is the cure for all of what keeps you from your happiness, well being and your destiny, which is simply the reason you came here.